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    September 10, 2012

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    Janice

    Lorie, I understand fully what you are going through. Both of my son's have already graduated college and moved out of town. The youngest moved 3 years ago. However, I still have some of their things at my house. Their apartments are too small to store all their belongings (mainly mementos). Whenever they come in town I have them go through a few more things. As time goes on it is easier for them to let go. Downsizing is a process that becomes easier and easier as both you and your children move into the next stage of your life.

    Debbie Davis

    As I thought about this great tip it made me think of something else that might be helpful. I could take a photo of the contents of a particular "memorabilia" box that my college graduated daughter has stored at my house. That way the Backstreet Boys poster can get the same "please keep" or "throw away" treatment. Like Janice, my daughter is currently living in a small apartment and would like to have some things held at our house for a couple of years until she moves into a larger home or gets married.

    Linda Bolt

    Great ideas! I love the numbering/photo idea. That will totally work.

    Lorie Marrero

    Thanks for the encouragement and the extra ideas!

    Jasmine

    I'm getting ready to move abroad and at age 34, I'm still storing a few things with my parents (I live nearby and am at their home regularly, so I keep a fair bit there). The move, even though it may be temporary, is inspiring me to get rid of things both in my own home and theirs. My 32-year-old brother, who lives half the country away and comes back only at Christmas, also has an outpost of crap in his old room at their house. I encourage those of you who have kids leaving now to do the un-nesting as soon as possible-- our mom is just now getting the instinct (after more than a decade of "but they're my babies and I want them to know they always have a place here!") and she wishes she'd kicked our stuff out sooner. I'm voluntarily kicking my own stuff out, but it's still hard. Start now! Having a box of old school papers isn't terribly useful to anyone, and as my mom said after giving away a quilt her deceased mother had made, said, "It's not like I'm going to forget my mom without this quilt."

    Marci

    This is so true! It is so comforting to hear that I am not the only one who struggles with "sentimental saving"! I agree that the more you can involve your young adult kids to deal with their " most special things" sooner rather than later, the less junk and hassle they will experience later on. No one wants to move into that first home or get married and find they still have a lot of unsorted things to bring along! It may seem hard to let go, but the payoff (and freedom) will be worth it!

    Natalie

    Wow Lorie. I hope you have permission to do that! There is no better way to cultivate a hoarder than to throw their stuff away. Just ask me! (Or any past participant on Hoarders and the many other shows of its type.)

    True, you should not just hold their rooms and stuff forever, but you need to be extremely careful when doing this.

    Ruth Shores

    Excellent post Lorie! Un-nesting is the perfect way of thinking of this transition in our lives. My oldest son just graduated college and has his first apartment. He took the initiative to purge and clear his room though I had that pang in my heart seeing him do it. My youngest son is in college and after watching his brother is slowly doing the same thing. Also my elderly parents are wrangling with the tough issue of whether to move from their too big family home. Downsizing is much easier when started early on. Easier...but hard to do!

    Todd Pennie Trucking

    This is great! I agree with Linda, I love the photo and numbering system!!! :D

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